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  1. XmasGirl

    XmasGirl Amateur

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    Regret

    Here is the quote I live by:

    "Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not that is inconsolable." ... Sydney J. Harris
     
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  2. BAM 69

    BAM 69 Panty Thief

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    just ask her, instead of making a move and fucking it up.
     
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  3. cunninglinguist82

    cunninglinguist82 Porn Surfer

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    LOL! Dude, I'm with you in that philosophy, hahaha. It's really easy to get lost in some simple philosophy like, "it's better to regret what you did than what you didn't," but when you REALLY put it in perspective, like you did, it kind of takes on a whole new meaning. lol. Annnnnywho...

    To the OP: I've been in this scenario before and I've had two conclusions. One of the conclusions is that I never said anything and our friendship continues to this day. We've beaten around the bush with the idea that we find each other attractive and would essentially ravage one another, but I'm one of those dudes who gets emotions involved really easily and she's the same way, so we keep that one nipped in the bud. The other girl, well, she's married. lol. We started off as good friends, then I started dropping little hints here and there, I mean... REALLY hard-to-catch stuff, like, "I want you to rub your beaver up 'n down my face and make it look like a glazed donut." Stuff like that. lol. Only kidding.

    Seriously, though, I started slow by telling her she was attractive. That kind of caught her slightly off guard, because I don't think she expected me to say even so much as that with her being married and me being the respectful individual I am... but she loved it. Slowly but surely, things progressed from there and before I knew it, I was standing up with her on my shoulders and her back up against a door, eating her pussy out and it was insane. Now, we can't even be friends because we've discovered such an INTENSE chemistry between one another. She wants to stay married and - remember that whole thing with me letting emotions get involved? Yeah, there's only so long you can deal with a woman you want to be with being married and wanting to stay that way. lol.

    Long story short, my personal method would be to hint at it subtly. You don't have to go all-in; you can just start by telling her how good she looks on any given day. Try that for a while, then try to get a conversation going sexually one day. Don't make it involve the two of you, just converse with her almost as if she's one of your guy friends. If you weren't interested in her sexually, and you two were as good of friends, you wouldn't hold back some of the things about yourself that you might be now, you know what I mean? So put some stuff out there for her and see how she responds to it. That's all if you want to try beating around the bush and being patient with it all. If you want some quick results, if you're good at eating pussy, go out drinking one night, just the two of you, and turn the conversation sexual. Ask her if you've ever told her about how much you love eating pussy but you're frustrated because you've not yet been with a girl who wanted it like you want to do it (even if you have, lol). That's a sure-fire way to at least pique her interest if it's ever going to happen, man. If not that, then make it about something else that you think will appeal to her. After all, nothing will shut her down faster than you saying something like, "man, I need a good, hard fuckin' right now and have I ever told you how much I love fuckin' a woman in her fart box?" lol.

    Keep us posted, dude. =)
     
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  4. errickssonje

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    Seconded.

    What happens if you don't ask? You're still friends and there's awkward sexual tension between you that will keep eating at you.

    What happens if you ask and she says no? You're still friends and there's an awkward sexual tension between you that will eventually dissipate.

    What happens if you ask and she says yes?
     
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  5. deepthought

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    If you want her but are really unsure about what she wants then you should... knock her out and then rape her, and ignore the irony when she's in the boot of your car screaming

    "wtf are you doing i wouldv'e done it with you anyway".
     
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  6. piggit

    piggit A Fine Wine of a Woman

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    Who are you? haha

    Great post. Welcome ... stick around.
     
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  7. cunninglinguist82

    cunninglinguist82 Porn Surfer

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    Hey there, Piggit! Thanks for the welcoming; I appreciate it! I actually posted here about a year ago after stumbling across this forum, then I just hadn't been back since until a few days ago. lol. I plan on sticking around this time and contributing in a positive manner. My posts do typically get quite lengthy, so I apologize for that in advance, but I'm a writer and love expressing my thoughts through the power of words - especially with the topics concerning this board, if you know what I mean. :eek: lol.

    Anyway, thanks again. Looking forward to participating and learning about the regulars of the community!
     
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  8. CommercialPilot

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    I thought the point was that it was more likely that if he asked and she said no, they would probably no longer be friends, and that is why its a tough choice....

    I go with the hint subtly option aswell, though you may then have to decide if she's flirting with you because she wants you, or because your her friend and she knows she can act like that without getting hit on....

    Why are women so hard to understand!?
     
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  9. Thor1692

    Thor1692 Porn Surfer

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    i think that its pretty hard to just be fuck buddies, usually someone ends up having feelings and things get complicated
     
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  10. Irishpassion

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    That can happen, but if they are such good friends that they can communicate well together, they should be able to avoid most of the usual pitfalls...one of my ex lovers is still a very close friend, even though we haven't been together sexually in many years, and his wife is also a dear friend (and yes she knows we were lovers once upon a time).
     
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  11. Bishop

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    i have a fuck buddie.. he just came out and asked me.. since i cant seem to find willing partners.


    i guess the fact im not attracted to him,helps it stay..just so.
     
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  12. Richard825

    Richard825 Porn Surfer

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    dont make it too complicated
     
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  13. Yemlek

    Yemlek Sex Machine

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    Aw, I'd be your fuck buddy :kiss: with the kind of sex I put out though you'd have a hard time not becoming infatuated with me, so be careful.
     
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  14. plicka66

    plicka66 Porn Surfer

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    go for it fant hart never won a fare lady
     
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  15. Bishop

    Bishop Porn Star

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    Lol. oh lawdy
     
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